So last wednesday Jolene had a get together at her house. Aunt Barbra and Uncle Van were in town and she wanted everyone to have the chance to say hi before they left.
When Jolene called to invite me I was so excited. We haven't had a family get together like that in I can't even remember. I haven't seen Aunt Barbra in forever, maybe since my wedding. They had been on a mission and Uncle Van just recovered from hip surgery.
We got to the party and I was surprised by how thin Barb and Van were. They looked good though. We sat and ate a good meal, the crazy amount of kids ran and played every where. Delmar sat around talking about everyone's weight and bringing up old childhood stories. I love listening to all of them talk and relate funny past experiences.
I had been wanted to talk to Barbra about something for a while. When I was 16 or 17 Bardra invited me to her house in California for a week to hang out and have fun. I was a little nervous to go alone and Corin was pretty upset that she wasn't asked so I set it up for Corin to come along with me. We got there and had a great time. We hung around and played in the pool, went shopping and ate out at a nice resturaunt. She offered to take us to San francisco for a day and we declined, opting to go get our hair done and pampered at the spa. It was a wonderful time to experience and get to know Barbra a little more and get to do some things I definitely would not be doing otherwise.
Ever since we went there I have been wanting to tell Barbra that I felt bad about having her spend so much money on us. We were there to hang out with barbra and get to know her and when we go the chance to do that more we wer just thinking about things she could do for us. I felt selfness and greedy. I feel like I had taken advantage of her.
I did get the chance to talk to her about it but I don't think that she undstood what I meant. She told me that it was the only time that she was able to get to know me more and she was happy for it. I am glad she felt that way but I still feel like I was way too selfish during that time. I guess I need to get over it. I just didn't want her to think I normally am that greedy and self centered.
I am impressed with Barbra that she was so nice about things and I have always felt that she is such a nice, honest and humble person. I am greatful for the wonderful role models I have had in my life and there are many others in my family and friends that I take a lot from by their example.
The night ended pretty quickly. I wished we could have sat around and talked for hours more, but that really isn't possible when you have a full load of kids to get to bed. It was the night that we were going to put up our halloween decorations, so we couldn't stay too long.
I do enjoy my family. They are fun to be around and Jolene is just so hilarious when she gets in a wacky mood.
So I was also put in charge of setting up a girls night with Jolene and her girls, and Mom and her girls. We will watch a movie and paint nails, wax eyebrows, talk about funny things, maybe play cards and eat yummy food. It should be great fun when I actually plan things out and set a time.
Thanks Jolene for a great night.